Lighting a cigar is a ritual in itself by Cigar One

To begin, always use a butane lighter, or a cedar or wooden matchstick. Petrol lighters, candles and wax matches all impart unpleasant odors that a cigar is quick to absorb.
Always remember that a cigar must be lit with patience and tranquility. A poorly lit Habanos can quickly spoil the overall experience.

Hold your cigar at a 90° angle above the flame of your lighter. Patiently twist the cigar until all parts of the foot are evenly charred. With the flame still under the foot, place the cigar to your lips puffing gently until the flames jump up. Continue rotating the cigar while occasionally blowing on the foot to ensure an even burn.

Allowing the ashes to gently fall and rolling these off onto the edge of the ashtray, are both perfectly acceptable.